Call it the algorithm method: Working with data crunchers at the dating sites, we put together 25 tips for writing the perfect profile, selecting the right photo, and really understanding your audience.
Comment on something specific to the profile to stop the message from feeling too copied and pasted. Send a message that shows me you're interested in me as a person, not just looks. Refrain from being too blatant, but compliment something specific, i.e.I think it also shows that they're actually thinking about what women may want to hear and putting a real effort into their profile.Women who are more forward, using phrases like dinner, drinks or lunch in the first message get 73 per cent more replies, while men should play it cooler.Plus, I'll reveal my tip on how to relax in front of the camera so you can smile and get it done! Men want to see what you're 'working with' — and most aren't looking for model-thin women, so no need to be self-conscious if you have feminine curves.4. Whatever pose you decide to strike, please do not sit down!You always look your best and thinnest when standing in a full-body shot.If you plan to crop the photo, of course, then sitting is fine.