She, or others, may try to make you feel guilty or ashamed of what has happened. Is it unfortunate that you have fallen for your friend’s ex? Would it have been better to talk with her before things got to this point? However, all you can do now is own your choices and move forward with honesty and integrity.
You also have the opportunity to use this experience as a chance for some introspection.
Well, karma got me and someone dated my ex a few years later. You may be together for a hot minute and in the process you will probably ruin your friendship.
But I never told my bestie that we were spending time together, let alone that we were growing close.Just because you break up with someone doesn't mean those feelings evaporate. If she's dating someone new, she probably is over him.I'm not too ashamed to admit I was always a little envious of my best friend when we were growing up.Okay, I'm about to admit something that *no* girl ever should. We were never really official but there were definitely sparks that flew between us. The rule I ignored was talking to your friend about it first. But even though my BFF and I are as tight as ever (c'mon, chicks before dicks), there are some things I should have asked myself before I went down the dangerous road of liking her former significant other. And so did my best friend's other friends, when they told her that her boyfriend had a crush on me. He was one of my best friends but every time I was with him, I had this nagging curiosity. "The sad truth is I never really considered how all of this would affect my friend. There's a definite girl code you should abide by when you're dating.On some level you must have known that she would be bothered by it, and you chose not to tell her.